Have you ever had one of those days when it seems like everything and everyone is falling apart around you, and all you can really do is to just barely hold everything up and together? When you go through the day with dozens of things to do, but a couple of things are just on your mind so much that you simply can't concentrate on anything else? But due to certain circumstances, those things you just can't work out for the life of you. It's like driving through slush-your tires get some traction, you seem to be making progress, until you hit a hill and simply can't go any further, or even start rolling backwards.
So yes, this is about a girl, one I love dearly, and one who is having a bad day. I just felt like posting this because I had things to rant about, and I've decided that people may as well be able to see my rants, as ranting in my head doesn't seem particularily productive. Some days I just wish that she could see that me not getting mad at her is just... something I do. I don't see anything wrong with what she does, so I don't get mad at her, it's as simple as that. If I were to get mad at her everytime she had a mood, what sort of person would I be? Certainly not who I am and claim to be. So, my point in this post is, I suppose, to just express my frustration with needing to show that I'm upset in order to let people know that I care. I don't think I should need to get angry or frustrated with the things people do in order to let them know that I care. Isn't it still caring if you try to understand, to listen, to console instead of to berate, to yell, to criticize? Just my little rant of the day.
Sunday, January 4, 2009
Life, the Universe, and Everything
Besides 42 for the Adams fans out there, what do those three words mean to you? Does a person, a face, an object, or an event come to mind? Or perhaps nothing more than a mere thought, an instant of consideration on what I mean by the title. In truth, it is really nothing more than just a springboard of sorts for me to gather my thoughts, and something I just wanted to have my readers, few as they may be, think about. Indeed, I have so little natural creativity that I need some sort of... starting point to build off of, to branch off from. And here we go:
The most basic fact of all forms of life is interaction. Whether you are a squid, a coelacanth, a daisy, cyanobacteria, or any other form of life, you interact, not only with your environment, but with other creatures as well by eating them, playing with them, helping them, etc. As humans, we interact with each other socially, through speech, writing, drama, and other forms of expression. This sort of necessary social interaction combines with our natural need for organization to produce social units of interaction, like a family or society as a whole. At which point, however, does one progress from one unit to the next? We are all born into a family of some sort, be it a fractured one or one that no longer exists. For the more fortunate among us who manage to retain at least one person to guide us through the earlier stages of life, that person or those people, whether related to us or not, essentially become our surrogate parents, provided that they were not our parents to begin with. These people.... as we progress through life, they appear to become less important to us in a sense, as the onset of puberty and eventual maturity brings us to a stage of semi to complete independence, in which we no longer need to depend on these people for comfort, food, or shelter, leaving that basic biological bond behind. How does one truly decipher what is left of the familial relationship then? There can be no real prior experience to show you how to proceed, and you flounder, looking for the right balance of affection and aloofness, wanting to be self-sufficient and your own person, while sometimes still seeking the warmth and comfort you know to have been in place, all your life, with the people who raised you. Is it a crime, then, to say that one does not feel a real connection with one's family then? Is it criminal to feel free after being released from the shackles of bonds formed from biological needs? There are few things that one could ever do to repay the debt of people spending years in their lives raising you, yet if a person simply does not feel a real, lasting bond with them, is the appropriate course to talk with them, trying to work out a way less painful than simple rejection of the people who raised you, or to accept that the years spent together were merely biological in nature, at least on one side of the family? It may seem callous of me to ask, but how much of human emotion is really based on biological instinct, and how much on conscious thought, on higher thinking and well-defined feelings? Having stated the above, I find that it is much simpler to accept that emotions are things that simply cannot be reasoned with, much less thought about logically-this goes against their very nature. One can only wrestle with their own feelings for so long... Eventually you either give in, destroy those feelings, or go insane. There are few alternatives, aside from perhaps repressing the emotions or dismissing them, but these are only temporary solutions for a larger problem.
Please do excuse the rant above... It is rather late in the night and I had an urge to write, so I got on the keyboard and saw what sprung from my fingertips given the title. Perhaps I'll go back to it at some point, to either go on with the title or what I've said in the wall of text above. Feel free to comment on everything I've said, whether you disagree, agree, or just want to say something. You're also welcome to comment with your own reactions to the title, as it is rather open-ended.
The most basic fact of all forms of life is interaction. Whether you are a squid, a coelacanth, a daisy, cyanobacteria, or any other form of life, you interact, not only with your environment, but with other creatures as well by eating them, playing with them, helping them, etc. As humans, we interact with each other socially, through speech, writing, drama, and other forms of expression. This sort of necessary social interaction combines with our natural need for organization to produce social units of interaction, like a family or society as a whole. At which point, however, does one progress from one unit to the next? We are all born into a family of some sort, be it a fractured one or one that no longer exists. For the more fortunate among us who manage to retain at least one person to guide us through the earlier stages of life, that person or those people, whether related to us or not, essentially become our surrogate parents, provided that they were not our parents to begin with. These people.... as we progress through life, they appear to become less important to us in a sense, as the onset of puberty and eventual maturity brings us to a stage of semi to complete independence, in which we no longer need to depend on these people for comfort, food, or shelter, leaving that basic biological bond behind. How does one truly decipher what is left of the familial relationship then? There can be no real prior experience to show you how to proceed, and you flounder, looking for the right balance of affection and aloofness, wanting to be self-sufficient and your own person, while sometimes still seeking the warmth and comfort you know to have been in place, all your life, with the people who raised you. Is it a crime, then, to say that one does not feel a real connection with one's family then? Is it criminal to feel free after being released from the shackles of bonds formed from biological needs? There are few things that one could ever do to repay the debt of people spending years in their lives raising you, yet if a person simply does not feel a real, lasting bond with them, is the appropriate course to talk with them, trying to work out a way less painful than simple rejection of the people who raised you, or to accept that the years spent together were merely biological in nature, at least on one side of the family? It may seem callous of me to ask, but how much of human emotion is really based on biological instinct, and how much on conscious thought, on higher thinking and well-defined feelings? Having stated the above, I find that it is much simpler to accept that emotions are things that simply cannot be reasoned with, much less thought about logically-this goes against their very nature. One can only wrestle with their own feelings for so long... Eventually you either give in, destroy those feelings, or go insane. There are few alternatives, aside from perhaps repressing the emotions or dismissing them, but these are only temporary solutions for a larger problem.
Please do excuse the rant above... It is rather late in the night and I had an urge to write, so I got on the keyboard and saw what sprung from my fingertips given the title. Perhaps I'll go back to it at some point, to either go on with the title or what I've said in the wall of text above. Feel free to comment on everything I've said, whether you disagree, agree, or just want to say something. You're also welcome to comment with your own reactions to the title, as it is rather open-ended.
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Hello Folks
First blog ever, so forgive me if I sound terribly boring and/or annoying.
Well, here's a poem I've written, for starters. I'll type up more stuff later.
Slowly I walk out
Searching for my quarry
Alert for threats
Seeing a veiled danger
I try to disarm you
With fair words and manners
It was not hard
For it was all true
But these words
The brutal honesty
Has been blocked out
Over the years
A Russian maiden
Fumbling in a foreign land
You drew me in
When did it happen?
I pressed my finger
To your inviting lips
Where it was bitten
Ever so slightly
I recoil in shame
Thinking myself vain
For assuming so much
Thinking you would
Find anything not repulsive
In one with a uniform so foul
Resigning myself to business
I still find myself
Inviting you back
To my hotel
Away from the hovel
That is my home
And holds so many memories
Seeing your fatigue
I assert myself
Deciding where your head will lay
I am an officer
Of no mean rank
Yet I find myself
Going to the floor
Personal comfort
Becomes of little value
Somehow all I want
Is for you to relax
I know you cannot
When I am around
I try to distance myself
I decide to let go
Yet even then
I cannot leave
I must be near you
In the same house
I reveal my purpose
Hoping for dismissal
I see your eyes fall
And so does my heart
There simply can be nothing
Between man and assignment
Assignment you are
Yet spark also
Igniting my mind and heart
So long in its pattern
Set through the years
You ask to leave
This I deny
I say it is my pleasure
You look at me in doubt
You cannot see that
I’ve gone crazy
To keep a suspected fugitive
To offer her room and bed
Yet I know it is right
A slip of the tongue
An empty threat
I laughingly threaten to
Shackle and bind
You laugh at my idiocy
My unintended joke
What goes on beneath
That silken veil?
Are you even now
Planning your escape?
All you would have to do
Is but to ask
And I would be the one shackled
Bound by my heart
Yet that cannot be
I cannot let it
Even as I mutter out loud
Thinking of all the possibilities
And my iron will
Perfected over the years
Weathered by cold-blooded killers
Seductive temptresses
Crumbles to dust
At your tinkling laugh
I seize your body
Pushing it against mine
I feel your skin, soft as satin
Ice-cold yet heating up
As my hands explore
The contours of your back
Our tongues twist and turn
As my lips devour yours
I pull away
Ever so reluctantly
Do I see you steadying yourself?
Could you actually feel something?
No, it simply cannot be
You were merely shocked
And do not lash out
Merely in fear of my station
We settle on the bed
Keeping separate
Even as I yearn
To hold you close
I will not force it
Disgust you further
Yet you roll still closer
I can feel your breath
Hear your heart
Your mind is a mystery
Your intentions, an enigma
But all I can say
Is the simple truth
I want you closer
Ever closer
But we do agree
That it cannot be
I, for your safety
You, for your own reasons
You say it is out of fear
Of my colleagues
Yet I sense
Something you hide
Too despicable
Too repellant a figure I am
With my uniform
Oh, the uniform…
I wish it were otherwise
Loosened tongues
Beating hearts
Probing hands
Glowing eyes
Another day
Another lifetime
Fantasy I want
Nightmare I walk
Even if it cannot last
This perfection
This tender trust
Just a man and a woman
To hell with rank
Throw away the fears
And let me hold you
I know, it doesn't rhyme, and there's no real pattern. But it tells a unique story, and it's special to me. So boo-hoo if you don't like it. My blog, my rules.
Well, here's a poem I've written, for starters. I'll type up more stuff later.
Slowly I walk out
Searching for my quarry
Alert for threats
Seeing a veiled danger
I try to disarm you
With fair words and manners
It was not hard
For it was all true
But these words
The brutal honesty
Has been blocked out
Over the years
A Russian maiden
Fumbling in a foreign land
You drew me in
When did it happen?
I pressed my finger
To your inviting lips
Where it was bitten
Ever so slightly
I recoil in shame
Thinking myself vain
For assuming so much
Thinking you would
Find anything not repulsive
In one with a uniform so foul
Resigning myself to business
I still find myself
Inviting you back
To my hotel
Away from the hovel
That is my home
And holds so many memories
Seeing your fatigue
I assert myself
Deciding where your head will lay
I am an officer
Of no mean rank
Yet I find myself
Going to the floor
Personal comfort
Becomes of little value
Somehow all I want
Is for you to relax
I know you cannot
When I am around
I try to distance myself
I decide to let go
Yet even then
I cannot leave
I must be near you
In the same house
I reveal my purpose
Hoping for dismissal
I see your eyes fall
And so does my heart
There simply can be nothing
Between man and assignment
Assignment you are
Yet spark also
Igniting my mind and heart
So long in its pattern
Set through the years
You ask to leave
This I deny
I say it is my pleasure
You look at me in doubt
You cannot see that
I’ve gone crazy
To keep a suspected fugitive
To offer her room and bed
Yet I know it is right
A slip of the tongue
An empty threat
I laughingly threaten to
Shackle and bind
You laugh at my idiocy
My unintended joke
What goes on beneath
That silken veil?
Are you even now
Planning your escape?
All you would have to do
Is but to ask
And I would be the one shackled
Bound by my heart
Yet that cannot be
I cannot let it
Even as I mutter out loud
Thinking of all the possibilities
And my iron will
Perfected over the years
Weathered by cold-blooded killers
Seductive temptresses
Crumbles to dust
At your tinkling laugh
I seize your body
Pushing it against mine
I feel your skin, soft as satin
Ice-cold yet heating up
As my hands explore
The contours of your back
Our tongues twist and turn
As my lips devour yours
I pull away
Ever so reluctantly
Do I see you steadying yourself?
Could you actually feel something?
No, it simply cannot be
You were merely shocked
And do not lash out
Merely in fear of my station
We settle on the bed
Keeping separate
Even as I yearn
To hold you close
I will not force it
Disgust you further
Yet you roll still closer
I can feel your breath
Hear your heart
Your mind is a mystery
Your intentions, an enigma
But all I can say
Is the simple truth
I want you closer
Ever closer
But we do agree
That it cannot be
I, for your safety
You, for your own reasons
You say it is out of fear
Of my colleagues
Yet I sense
Something you hide
Too despicable
Too repellant a figure I am
With my uniform
Oh, the uniform…
I wish it were otherwise
Loosened tongues
Beating hearts
Probing hands
Glowing eyes
Another day
Another lifetime
Fantasy I want
Nightmare I walk
Even if it cannot last
This perfection
This tender trust
Just a man and a woman
To hell with rank
Throw away the fears
And let me hold you
I know, it doesn't rhyme, and there's no real pattern. But it tells a unique story, and it's special to me. So boo-hoo if you don't like it. My blog, my rules.
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